Real love

As some of you may already know, I’m not a big fan of Valentine’s Day. If you think that makes me unromantic, well…I don’t really care. I won’t give you my arguments against the holiday, as I think I’ve made my case against it here and here.

But I will reiterate my contention that Valentine’s Day is not so much about love, but about expressing love. Not a bad thing, of course. We all need to be loved. My problem with the holiday is with all those who feel so completely unloved by their exclusion in the festivities. I’m not suggesting a boycott of the holiday, I just don’t personally celebrate it.

For all of you who face this week with trepidation–worried that you won’t give or receive enough to feel loved, I’m going to break my self-imposed ban of Valentine’s Day to send out a very special message of love. It’s one I’ve posted here before, but one I need to be reminded of often.

Maybe you do, too.

Brennan Manning said:

The Lord Jesus is going to ask each of us one question and only one question:

Do you believe that I loved you? That I desired you? That I waited for you day after day? That I longed to hear the sound of your voice?

The real believers there will answer, “Yes, Jesus. I believed in your love and I tried to shape my life as a response to it. But many of us who are so faithful in our ministry, in our practice, in our church going are going to have to reply, “Well frankly, no sir. I mean, I never really believed it. I mean, I heard alot of wonderful sermons and teachings about it. In fact I gave quite a few myself. But I always knew that that was just a way of speaking; a kindly lie, some Christian’s pious pat on the back to cheer me on. And there’s the difference between the real believers and the nominal Christians that are found in our churches across the land. No one can measure like a believer the depth and the intensity of God’s love. But at the same time, no one can measure like a believer the effectiveness of our gloom, pessimism, low self-esteem, self-hatred and despair that block God’s way to us. Do you see why it is so important to lay hold of this basic truth of our faith? Because you’re only going to be as big as your own concept of God.

Do you remember the famous line of the French philosopher, Blaise Pascal? “God made man in his own image, and man returned the compliment”? We often make God in our own image, and He winds up to be as fussy, rude, narrow minded, legalistic, judgemental, unforgiving, unloving as we are.

 

 

 

In the past couple of three years I have preached the gospel to the financial community in Wallstreet, New York City, the airmen and women of the air force academy in Colorado Springs, a thousand positions in Nairobi. I’ve been in churches in Bangor, Maine, Miami, Chicago, St. Louis, Seattle, San Diego. And honest, the god of so many Christians I meet is a god who is too small for me. Because he is not the God of the Word, he is not the God revealed by it in Jesus Christ who this moment comes right to your seat and says,

“I have a word for you. I know your whole life story. I know every skeleton in your closet. I know every moment of sin, shame, dishonesty and degraded love that has darkened your past. Right now I know your shallow faith, your feeble prayer life, your inconsistent discipleship. And my word is this: I dare you to trust that I love you just as you are, and not as you should be. Because you’re never going to be as you should be.”

Do you believe that He loves you?

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4 Responses to “Real love”

  1. jake February 11, 2013 at 10:37 pm #

    That video makes me nauseous with conviction. I would like to think that he loves me, but it isn’t always easy. This is great for V-day though!

  2. SimplyDarlene February 12, 2013 at 11:30 am #

    Thank you for posting the video in print form too.

    Yes, ma’am, I believe!

    Maybe that’s why I don’t too much stock into Heart-Day either.

    My son and I usually make new construction hearts of all sizes with love messages (like “slurp-lick from the dogs” & “hugs from mommy” & “kisses from the kiddo” etc) – we then place these all over the house (sock drawers, on the mirror, stuck on walls) so we can see them every single day.

    Whaddaya know, the one from the dogs survived the entire year.

    Blessings.

  3. Frank February 13, 2013 at 6:06 pm #

    You should join our discussion group on Manning’s ‘The Furious Longing of God’. This post fits right in with this week 🙂 I am convicted by Manning’s heart. Here is someone who is literally filled to overflowing with God’s love.

  4. floyd February 14, 2013 at 6:22 pm #

    Wow. That was powerful… I’m reading Manning’s “The Furious Longing For God right now. What a phenomenal legacy he’s creating by using his gift. Thanks for sharing that.

    I’m not too into Valentines day either, but I did get my wife a card that sings “I’m Burning For You” by Blue Oyster Cult when you open it up… Yeah, it won’t get much mileage with her either, but it does me!

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